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The clip below is from an interview on The Dementia Collective podcast, with host Andrew Karesa, founder of blueBell Village. Lori La Bey, the founder of Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks, was his guest. Lori shares a story in this short video about how she was able to listen intently and follow the guidance she received, even though, logically, it made no sense at all. Lori felt it was impossible to think this notion had even a small chance of working, but the pain she was feeling, along with her mother living with dementia, made it worth a try, as she knew of no other options.<\/p>\n

Lori encourages people to try alternative methods to overcome fear and create calm when logic doesn\u2019t work. So often, both families and staff hesitate, feeling that telling a lie or participating in a storyline that never happened is the correct mode. She encourages people to look past something that we frame as right or wrong, and shift to a mindset and heartset of what will bring back calmness and happiness to the person they are caring for, as long as it does not harm anyone. <\/p>\n

Living In The Past, Can Be Leveraged To Calm The Present<\/h2>\n
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Below is another clip from the full episode.<\/p>\n

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Below is the full episode on The Dementia Collective podcast, with host Andrew Karesa and his guest, Lori La Bey, founder of Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks.<\/p>\n

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If You Are Interested In Learning More About Andrew Karesa Work, You Can Reach Out To Him Below<\/h2>\n

Andrew Karesa LinkedIn: https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/andykaresa\/<\/a><\/h2>\n

blueBell Village LinkedIn: https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/bluebellvillage\/<\/a><\/h2>\n

blueBell Village Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/bluebell_village\/<\/a><\/h2>\n

blueBell Village Facebook: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/bluebellvillage<\/a><\/h2>\n

blueBell Village X (Twitter):<\/h2>\n

https:\/\/twitter.com\/blueBellVillage<\/a><\/h2>\n

blueBell Village YouTube: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Bluebellvillage<\/a><\/h2>\n
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Contact Lori La Bey<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Join the \u201cGiver Of Hope\u201d cause and download your graphic here.<\/a> <\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Listen & Subscribe <\/a>to Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks on Your Favorite Podcast<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Contact Us To Be On The Next Open Mic https:\/\/alzheimersspeaks.com\/be-a-guest\/<\/a><\/h2>\n
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FeedSpot Honors Us Again For Being One Of The Best 20 Alzheimer\u2019s Podcasts for 2025.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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We are Thankful once again for being honored as a Top 10 Podcast! Thank you, Million Podcasts.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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We are so proud to be recognized by Feedspot as a Top Blog & Website.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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PLAN AHEAD! Maude\u2019s Awards <\/a>gives three annual $25,000 awards to organizations and up to five $5,000 awards to individuals. <\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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And How They Are Busting Stigmas By Highlighting Possibilities<\/h2>\n
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Dementia Map Global Resource Directory https:\/\/www.dementiamap.com<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Learn About The Programs Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks Offers<\/h2>\n
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Talk To Lori La Bey About Your Next Speaking Event <\/a>for Staff or Families. She Offers A Variety Of Keynotes, Breakout Sessions, Trainings, and Fundraising Asks<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Check Out <\/a> Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks FREE Educational Resources<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Conscious Caregiving with L & L<\/a> is a monthly program covering tough conversations to raise awareness, provide support, and make resources. available. Watch the video <\/a>now<\/a>.<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Check out Echo\u2019s Insights, where you will learn what it\u2019s really like to live with Alzheimer\u2019s Disease. Visit our Dementia Chats page for more details.<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Dementia Chats Brings You Adapting to Brain Change on Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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Learn More About Dementia Chats<\/a><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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There\u2019s Still More To Learn About Alzheimer\u2019s Speaks!<\/h2>\n
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